Dating with accountability

For 20-somethings tired of commitment issues.

You are not crazy for wanting something real. KOMMIT is for people who are done with ghosting, casual flaking, and feeling rejected.

Get paid if your date is a shitty human with KOMMIT.

The trust problem

Dating apps made disappearing consequence-free.

  • Plans get made casually and broken casually.
  • Ghosting is normalized.
  • Time and effort are treated as disposable.

The emotional cost lands on the person who cares more.

Why KOMMIT exists

We make commitments real by putting money on the line.

  • If someone bails, the person who showed up gets paid.
  • Being a dick lowers your trust score.
  • Clear communication and respectful follow-through raise it.

Tinder made dating easy. KOMMIT makes it intentional.

Clarity

You both agree to explicit terms before a commitment starts. No mixed signals and no guessing.

Accountability

A small stake makes promises feel real again. If someone breaks the commitment, the person who showed up gets paid.

Respect

No public shaming, no location sharing, no drama theater. Just fair outcomes and less shit dates.

How it works

Simple enough to use, strong enough to matter.

01

Kommit to communication

Pick a reply window, 7 or 14 days, and set some ground rules of respect.

02

Kommit to the date

Agree on time, location, and a cancellation window. Check in at the date with GPS verification.

03

Kommit to fairness

If both show up, great. If one person bails, KOMMIT resolves the payout based on what happened.

KOMMIT makes dating fair.

Your time and emotional energy are not free. If someone is not giving you theirs, we step in.

KOMMIT makes the hidden costs visible and fair, so the person who follows through is not the one left carrying everything.

What KOMMIT is not

Join the beta waitlist

For people done with ghosting, bailing, and mixed signals.

We are starting with anti-ghosting commitments and in-person date accountability. Join now for early access.

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